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Making love with a long-term partner is less about sex and more about sharing time and cups of tea/coffe,in between the sex. Sex life is bit lacking? Take heart; the answer lies not in scary-sounding toys or tantric techiques, but a nice cup of tea/coffee. If you stop in the middle of love-making to have tea/coffe abd talk to each other, it shows how desire comes and goes- that sex isn`t just a reace to the end. It allows you time to be inimate with each other. Sex which used to last 15 minutes suddenly lasts an hour and a half. --------------------------------------------------------------------------. The dos and don`ts of doing it *Take the pressure of off by having a break from sex for a few weeks. Focus on touching instead. *Develop habits that give you a head start, such as going to bed at the same time as your partner and keeping distractions such as computers and phones away from the bedroom. *Simple communication also helps; if you`re going to bed, then make a point of telling your partners, so they know you have`nt gone for a bath or a whatever. *If you`ve got children, put a lock on your bedroom door. If you`re worried about overheard, play music. *Don`t wait to be in mood. Sex does`nt always have to be spontaneous. Plan sex. *Communicate. Bring up subject of sex can easly be taken as a criticism. Don`t focus on problems but talk about what`s good about your sex life and what you enjoyed in the past. -------------------------------------------------------------------------. Your views, suggestions or comments are most welcome. Kind Regards Sunder Thadani http://netlog.com/sunderonline/index.html