Seriousness can be defined as paying undue importance to something, at the cost of everything else. It arises from the inability to see that all of life is just a drama that is unfolding every minute. Seriousness is the result of over-expectation from life.
Seriousness kills spontaneity and destroys creativity. It closes your mind to the openness and freedom of life. It makes you dull and dead. When you perform a task in a relaxed and light manner, your thinking and decision-making capacity is automatically enhanced. The same task when performed in a serious manner dulls your mind. When you do something too seriously and are too concerned about the result. You are not allowing yourself to perform at the optimum level.
We should be sincere and sensitive which means being aware of everything. Understand, being sensitive does not mean being open to everything. Being unable to say `no` does not mean sensitivity. That is actually ego!
We should make plans and think ahead with sincerity, not with seriousness. Seriousness is not the same as sincerity. Sincerity is focusing on the task with enthusiasm and youthfulness while giving your best without worrying excessively about the results! When you are serious, you don’t enjoy, you don’t laugh, how can you laugh when you are serious?
We should understand our uniqueness but this does not mean that we should consider ourselves so special that we start taking ourselves too seriously.
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Friday, October 16, 2009
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If we look at why most people with money are arrogant we will find it is because of the feeling of independence that money brings. The awareness of dependence on the on the other hand makes one humble.The basic human quality of humility is taken away by a false feeling of independence.
The world is of change; the Self is of no-change. We have to rely on the non-change and accept the change. This is like perceiving the real as unreal and unreal as real. In fact, all miseries are unreal. A wise man knows that happiness is real, as it is our very nature. Unhappiness is unreal because it is inflicted by memory. When we see everything as a dream, then we abide in our true nature-love, joy, and peace. We then understand that money is not all-important. Values, sense of belonging, love, and care are more important...
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The world is of change; the Self is of no-change. We have to rely on the non-change and accept the change. This is like perceiving the real as unreal and unreal as real. In fact, all miseries are unreal. A wise man knows that happiness is real, as it is our very nature. Unhappiness is unreal because it is inflicted by memory. When we see everything as a dream, then we abide in our true nature-love, joy, and peace. We then understand that money is not all-important. Values, sense of belonging, love, and care are more important...
Best Wishes!Sunder.Thadani.
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Change is the inevitability of life. Our interpretation of change determines our attitude and approach to life. What is apparently beneficial is accepted without any fuss. When it comes to accepting the inconvenient and the unpleasant, there begins conflict and resentment. However, the seemingly hopeless situations that are very painful to deal with are also instruments of change. “What the caterpillar call the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly.
Helplessness is a state of the mind. Fixing the blame is not what absolves one of failure. Fixing the problem is the only redemption. Anger, fear, resentment, and frustration only muddle neural networks. They are merely manifestations of the fight or fright response. What is actually needed is a right, bright and trite response.
A positive approach is a big help, as it tends to activate the right brain, the one that has great intuitive abilities. The most appropriate response to any problem would be whole-brained
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Helplessness is a state of the mind. Fixing the blame is not what absolves one of failure. Fixing the problem is the only redemption. Anger, fear, resentment, and frustration only muddle neural networks. They are merely manifestations of the fight or fright response. What is actually needed is a right, bright and trite response.
A positive approach is a big help, as it tends to activate the right brain, the one that has great intuitive abilities. The most appropriate response to any problem would be whole-brained
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Tuesday, September 22, 2009
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DuriSunder Institute of eLearningInformation World in Your pocket and it is Fee-Free Managed by: DuriSunder Foundation
Registered Trust with Govt. of MaharashtraMumbai 400028Contact: Sunder Thadani, Resident: Hon. SecretaryMailto to: esunder@in.com – mob: 91-996-907-3330Services provided: eLearning Introduction:"We are living in a time when no organization can succeed on its own. The development of results-focused nonprofit and business creates a growing opportunity for these organizations to work together and create new possibilities that further their respective missions: Nonprofits...
DuriSunder Institute of eLearning believes that eLearning can play a valuable role in the total training solution. We have drawn on our extensive experience as trainers of financial professionals to design courseware that provides a high-quality, electronic learning experience, covering a variety of topics in the financial industry. DuriSunder Institute of Finance eLearning courses are available 24 hours a day and are designed so you may learn at your own pace; anytime, anywhere you might access the internet. Currently, over 90 Topics providing more than 100 hours of online learning are available via the Web via our eLearning Management System (elms). The courses use a combination of text, audio and graphics to achieve a learning experience that takes advantage of the opportunities inherent in web delivery.
For further details, kindly contact Sunder Thadani on mailto: sunderthadani@ibibo.com or on mob no. 919969073330 [No holidays].
Your views, suggestions, or comments are most welcome.
Kindly get involve and devote your little time, or share your experience to educate the people on the latest happening in the knowledge and information technology, and bring the computer culture, within any individual`s reach anywhere, anytime at no expenses whatsoever.
Let us make this village, so called the Globe, a better place to live, work and be happy ever after.
Best Wishes,
Sincerely, Sunder Thadani
Registered Trust with Govt. of MaharashtraMumbai 400028Contact: Sunder Thadani, Resident: Hon. SecretaryMailto to: esunder@in.com – mob: 91-996-907-3330Services provided: eLearning Introduction:"We are living in a time when no organization can succeed on its own. The development of results-focused nonprofit and business creates a growing opportunity for these organizations to work together and create new possibilities that further their respective missions: Nonprofits...
DuriSunder Institute of eLearning believes that eLearning can play a valuable role in the total training solution. We have drawn on our extensive experience as trainers of financial professionals to design courseware that provides a high-quality, electronic learning experience, covering a variety of topics in the financial industry. DuriSunder Institute of Finance eLearning courses are available 24 hours a day and are designed so you may learn at your own pace; anytime, anywhere you might access the internet. Currently, over 90 Topics providing more than 100 hours of online learning are available via the Web via our eLearning Management System (elms). The courses use a combination of text, audio and graphics to achieve a learning experience that takes advantage of the opportunities inherent in web delivery.
For further details, kindly contact Sunder Thadani on mailto: sunderthadani@ibibo.com or on mob no. 919969073330 [No holidays].
Your views, suggestions, or comments are most welcome.
Kindly get involve and devote your little time, or share your experience to educate the people on the latest happening in the knowledge and information technology, and bring the computer culture, within any individual`s reach anywhere, anytime at no expenses whatsoever.
Let us make this village, so called the Globe, a better place to live, work and be happy ever after.
Best Wishes,
Sincerely, Sunder Thadani
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